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Monday, August 8, 2011

How to Know if a Girl Likes You

1-Strike up a small conversation This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. If you like a girl, don't let her slip away, tell her the truth, but if you don't like her and she told you that she does, don't say anything...it can break her heart. And when she tells you that, and, you don't like her, tell her that she's a great person. Girls like it when boys say they like something that they did or either said you're great at something. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little more soft, and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping), adjusting her clothes, and might stare at you. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at only your boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy dork.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot because she is thinking of funny, nice gossip.
A girl that's interested in you will usually immediately smile when you start a conversation with her. The smile may disappear quickly if she's shy, but it's hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If she's not interested (that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, but she likely doesn't have a crush on you), she'll likely look at you inquisitively, but she won't express any particular strong emotion.
2-Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirting girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Although some girls have no idea they are flirting. Most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirting ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you. And she has nothing you like or she doesn't act the way you like girls.
3-Notice if she gives you random hugs. With this, you can go alone with it if you want, or just act busy like you're late for class or something.
4-Notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you more often than what people do (she's obviously trying to touch you or feel how strong or soft you are). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. Tell her it was okay and you're fine. But conversely, don't assume that she doesn't like you because her fall didn't touch you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself. She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to the body.
5-Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you. Some girls might just be staring so don't think she loves you and wants to kiss. But if she holds the stare, and you see love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction
6-Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. So you should probably listen to stuff like, "stop teasing me!" or "be quiet! He might hear!!" When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date me or (her name), who do you like better, who is the hottest, would you marry (her name) or me, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.
7-Look out for the damsels in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, look for her mad and tell her that who ever she likes gave it to him to give it to her. In which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.
8-Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, she is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.
9-Notice little things she does for you. If she's always there for you when you need help, even like when you mention that you're really thirsty and she quickly offers you a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don't assume that she's into you only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum or a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she's always ready to offer you something you might need, go further and ask her to help you with something else, like a school/work problem. It shouldn't be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls who aren't too smart might say that they don't know how to help you with those kind of things. If she's eager to help you, she probably likes you

Love

Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.[1] In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. Love is central to many religions, as in the Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels.[2] Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.[3]
In English, the word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" can also refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros (cf. Greek words for love), to the emotional closeness of familial love, or to the platonic love that defines friendship,[4] to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love.[5] This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.
Helen Fisher defines what could be understood as love as an evolved state of the survival instinct, primarily used to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species through reproduction.[6]

Monday, August 1, 2011

How tO Make SomeBody Fall In Love With You :




  • 1/LEAD BY EXAMPLE. If you want to make someone fall in love with you, you'll have to fall in love with yourself first. Just as, if you want respect, you must demonstrate self-respect, no one worthy of your time is going to surrender their heart to someone who can't even impress themselves. Think of all the wonderful, interesting, clever, and enchanting parts of your personality and realize how valuable they make you as a person. If you can't think of many reasons to love yourself, love yourself anyhow. How you see yourself and treat yourself shows the rest of the world how you should be treated. Lead with an example of appreciation for the unique and fantastic person you are and others will follow. If you want to make someone fall in love with you, the first 'someone' should be YOU.




  • 2/CHALLENGE YOURSELF AND GROW. Change is exciting. Change is a mystery. People who challenge themselves, grow, and transform have an aura of adventure that keeps other people interested. It also makes others want to come along for the ride. Keep learning, trying, embracing new parts of the universe. Make someone fall in love with you, and make sure they can't turn their attention away from you for fear they will miss your next exciting development.




  • 3/FORGIVE. FORGET. BE HAPPY. You may have a lot of emotional baggage left over from past relationships. Perhaps you were mistreated or your trust was violated. Whatever happened in your past that still makes you angry, let go of it. Resenting old lovers sends a message to new lovers that they will be competing with history for your devotion. Be here now. Show the person you want to make fall in love with you that you are free, functional, and ready to fall in love again.




  • 4/BE POSITIVE. There are worse ways to make someone fall in love with you than spilling joy and happiness into their lives. If you really want to make an impression, ditch the negativity and stand out from the crowd as a beacon of light and positivity. There's nothing more lovable than happiness.




  • 5/ENJOY LIFE. Make someone fall in love with you by showing your appreciation for life, big and small. Not just fun and exciting times, but dull and quiet times too. Be at peace and enjoy your cold cup of drive-thru coffee. Appreciate the mishaps, the storms, the losses as part of life, and keep focused on the bigger picture: the beauty of existence, not the minor misfortunes.




  • 6/BE GENEROUS. People who give freely of their time and heart have no problem making someone else fall in love. In fact, their giving nature displays a confidence that makes them irresistible. Not only does it show your ability to sympathize with others, but it shows you are confident that you have more than enough of your heart and resources to share.




  • 7/HAVE REASONABLE STANDARDS. If you're trying to make someone fall in love with you, have reasonable expectations of what and who that person really is. Even if you do make someone fall in love with you, don't expect that it will dramatically change or fix your life. Don't expect that someone to be perfect or anything more than they appeared to be before you decided to seduce them. Holding someone to an unrealistic and impossible standard is a great way to kill and amazing love affair.




  • 8/NO UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Love without conditions is something that happens between parents and children, family members, etc. It's not something that should happen in a relationship. Even if you are able to make someone fall in love with you, that doesn't mean you should accept whatever comes along. Hold onto your standards. Never let the one you want think that everything they do will be accepted. When you love a lover unconditionally, you become a doormat. Know how you should be treated and let the one you want know too.




  • 9/GIVE THEM WHAT THEY WANT. It's easy to make someone fall in love with you if you know what they really want. They don't even need to know what they want for you to give it to them. In fact, if you can fill a void that they weren't consciously aware of, the effect you have in their life will seem magical. Does the one you want need acceptance, companionship, excitement, stability? Take a look at their personality and life and see if there isn't some unknown need or want begging to be satisfied.




  • 10/NEVER STOP TRYING. Sure, you can make someone fall in love with you, but then what? If you stop trying to impress your love or lover, your relationship and love will be short lived. Approach making love like it was the first time, every time. Dress like it's your first date no matter how many times you've been out together. Never stop trying to impress the person you want. Keep trying and keep dazzling them. Make someone fall in love with you today... and tomorrow... and the next day .



  • Best Ways tO Make SomeBody Loves You :



  • *Give your love to people – If you want to have love in you life, you’ve got to give other people love in their life! You must give out your love to as many people as possible, otherwise you will find yourself with no love since you haven’t given your own love first! 


  • *Take care of your body – In our modern day world, if you eat McDonalds 24/7 no one will find you attractive, and they will find it hard to give you love… They won’t be able to take you seriously if you wobble about the place, knocking things off shelves all the time.. I’m sorry if this hurts your feelings, but I also hope it gets you to change but you need to start exercising! Unless you have a very good reason to why you cannot exercise for 20 minutes everyday, I think everyone who wants to be found attractive and loved should do it! 


  • *Love yourself – Now here’s a question for you… If you don’t love yourself… How can you expect other people to love you? If you hate yourself, people will see that you’re not a very happy person, and that being with you may cause them to be unhappy as well! Always love yourself like you would want others to love you, as that’s where the whole love thing starts! With you…


  • *Don’t hate on people – If you are known for hating anyone, just simply go up to them and become great friends or something while you can! This is because if you keep that hate inside of you, it will spread to others who will end up hating you for hating them! Trust me never hate anyone unless they did something absolutely unspeakable to you!


  • *Talk to people – Now this is very important to listen up! Be interested in peoples thoughts and opinions, and they’ll take you as being an interesting person! The person you’re talking to will also hopefully come to love you as time goes on, and if you do this well you’ll have a lot of people who are starting to admire you for who you really are! 


  • *Stick around with lovers – The best way to get loved, is to hang around people who receive love as well… By doing what they do (Within reason…) you’ll become someone who is heavily loved as well! 


  • *Treat others as you would like to be treated – Now I’ve got a little challenge for you, that you must do for the rest of your life… Treat people as you’d like to be treated! When you see someone randomly that you know, treat them as if you were them and they’ll begin to love you! You’ll also grow with a reputation of being a delightful person to be with, as you treat others very well! 


  • *Give people reason to love you – Think right now what are 10 reasons for someone to love you today? If you haven’t got 10 already go find 10, and make them so strong people notice them as soon as they pass you! Trust me this works like a charm!


  • *Give respect to people – By giving respect to others, you will find that respect comes travelling back to you very rapidly! This is also where 2 things happen which are fantastic for people loving you! One is that you’re creating a strong bond between you and other person, and that you’re building a strong relationship! These both are key for true love! 


  • *Always smile and be polite to people – I’m glad you made it as far as here, as this is the best way in the whole guide about getting someone to love you! you’ll also be glad to know that it is the easiest way as well! It’s simply smiling and being polite to other people everywhere you go! Wow! That’s all there is to it! Smiling makes you 30% more attractive to other people, and being polite shows you’re worth being around! That’s all there is folks now get to action! 


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    How tO Make Somebody Like You in 3 Simple steps :


    Step 1: Learn To Like Yourself First.


    How can you expect other people to like you when you can't even stand yourself? Naturally, you have to like yourself enough first to be able to appeal to others. While this first step might pose a small problem if you have low self-esteem, I don't think there's a better time to deal with that personal issue than now.

    Why don't you start by creating a list of qualities you like about yourself? These characteristics don't have to be all physical or all mental. And try not to think in terms of conventional qualities like beautiful, handsome, intelligent, etc. Instead, look at different parts of yourself and see how you react to certain situations.

    For example, you could have great-looking eyes and a penchant for witty comebacks. You might be more artistically inclined than your peers. Or you might have a talent for sports. List as many items as you can. Afterwards, review and confirm all these traits with yourself. It's a great confidence booster.

    Step 2: Know Where You Stand.

    If you want to learn how to make someone like you a lot, you also have to know just how the person in question views you. Does he or she like you already? Or is it a hate at first sight affair?

    By knowing where you stand, you will be able to strategize how best to approach your target. If the person favors you already, then there's not a lot of work to be done. You just have to keep doing what you do with a little added extra.

    On the other hand, if the person doesn't have such a positive opinion of you, you're going to have to exert more effort. First, gain that person's trust. Do small favors for them. Keep away from the big ones until you've established yourself to be a trustworthy person. Jumping into it so soon will only make your intentions suspicious.

    The same philosophy applies to giving compliments. One sincere and positive comment is more effective than a shower of half-meant praises.

    Step 3: Avoid Creating Tension.

    Learning how to make someone like you a lot means keeping away from topics that might make the other person uncomfortable. Try to avoid saying or doing something that might make your interaction awkward or tense.

    These lessons won't magically produce results overnight. But if you really want to learn how to make someone like you a lot, you need to go through each step with true determination.

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